Donna27
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Hey everyone (WARNING this is kind of long winded!
)
One of my close friends got a minature dachshund puppy a few months ago, who is now 4.5 months old. She comes over at least once a week to play with Fiona, and while Heidi is only 5 pounds compared to Fiona's 14, she TERRORIZES Fiona. Fiona has never ever been much of a player, so she's just starting to learn, and her version of playing is running around the house, not playing rough. Heidi CONSTANTLY will chase Fiona, and bite onto her ears and not let go!
. My friend always says that Fiona needs to stand up for herself and yelp so Heidi knows not to, and the other day she was YELPING and Heidi still didnt let go.
For a long time, Fiona would just hop on the couch and lay down (good girl
) and not fight back to Heidi. Heidi barks up a storm, and my friends excuse is always "oh she just wants to play, and isnt used to dogs not wanting to play with her".
On top of the terrorizing Fiona, Heidi is not potty trained and pees MULTIPLE times around the house when she's over, and even pooped on a chair the other day. I know we all went through it, but when I went to other people's houses I was always TERRIFIED of Fiona making a potty mistake and always kept her right by me. It's a difficult situation because she's one of my close friends. I think she figures "oh, Fiona went through that, she wont mind if Heidi goes in her house", but it's not the same when it's not your dog. She always let her out of sight, and the other night when I was getting into Bed there was a big wet spot on our bedroom rug!!
It's such a touchy subject to critique how other people raise their puppies and I dont want to offend my friend...but Kevin's almost ready to say he doesnt want Heidi over. She's really a great pup and they go on walks together and are fine.
I dont really know how to handle it...I'm afraid if she doesnt be careful Heidi is going to become an agressive dog, especially since she's loud and a bully now. Dachshunds can be very prone to bullyness. Yesterday when she was over, I think Fiona has finally had it. Fiona has NEVER EVER EVER been possessive of her toys, food, or anything, but Fiona was trying to chew on her nylabone by herself, and Heidi kept harassing her, and Fiona actually started to growl and bare her teeth at her!! I was shocked, she has never done that! Is that good that she's standing up to Heidi, or should I be wary of her becoming a bitter old dog in her 1 year of life?
Sorry for the rant, but I'm stuck on what to do.
One of my close friends got a minature dachshund puppy a few months ago, who is now 4.5 months old. She comes over at least once a week to play with Fiona, and while Heidi is only 5 pounds compared to Fiona's 14, she TERRORIZES Fiona. Fiona has never ever been much of a player, so she's just starting to learn, and her version of playing is running around the house, not playing rough. Heidi CONSTANTLY will chase Fiona, and bite onto her ears and not let go!
For a long time, Fiona would just hop on the couch and lay down (good girl
On top of the terrorizing Fiona, Heidi is not potty trained and pees MULTIPLE times around the house when she's over, and even pooped on a chair the other day. I know we all went through it, but when I went to other people's houses I was always TERRIFIED of Fiona making a potty mistake and always kept her right by me. It's a difficult situation because she's one of my close friends. I think she figures "oh, Fiona went through that, she wont mind if Heidi goes in her house", but it's not the same when it's not your dog. She always let her out of sight, and the other night when I was getting into Bed there was a big wet spot on our bedroom rug!!
It's such a touchy subject to critique how other people raise their puppies and I dont want to offend my friend...but Kevin's almost ready to say he doesnt want Heidi over. She's really a great pup and they go on walks together and are fine.
I dont really know how to handle it...I'm afraid if she doesnt be careful Heidi is going to become an agressive dog, especially since she's loud and a bully now. Dachshunds can be very prone to bullyness. Yesterday when she was over, I think Fiona has finally had it. Fiona has NEVER EVER EVER been possessive of her toys, food, or anything, but Fiona was trying to chew on her nylabone by herself, and Heidi kept harassing her, and Fiona actually started to growl and bare her teeth at her!! I was shocked, she has never done that! Is that good that she's standing up to Heidi, or should I be wary of her becoming a bitter old dog in her 1 year of life?
Sorry for the rant, but I'm stuck on what to do.