Everyone said they wanted an update so here goes. Went to see the surgeon today. He is really pleased with how I am healing. There is still a lot of swelling on my back from where they have removed the muscle to make my new breast and also the breast itself. Which is making them look very odd in size. But he did assure me the swelling would go down but could take several months and even up to a year......The cancer removed was a Grade 3 which is the most aggressive and was 2 cm in size. The other one in the other side was 9cm so that was a blessing and the fact that it hasn't spread to my lymph nodes is good news. But he wants me to have chemo. Because of my young age (41???) he wants to prolong my life - thanks for that. But as to what type of chemo i have I have to wait until next week to see the oncologist. But the breast nurse told me that there is now for breast cancer which doesn't make you lose your hair. But it will make it very thin. However, I have very very thick hair so a bit wouldn't go a miss. I am going to continue to work through the chemo and if I feel the need to finish early or come in late then do that. I don't need any radiotherapy as there was no spread and the cancer isn't a hormonal one so won't need any medication afterwards. So heres to the next 6 months of chemo etc etc. Just trying to keep my chin up and all that.