Daisy's Mom
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As I've posted in the Showing and Training area a few weeks ago, Daisy and I are doing Intermediate Obedience right now. The graduation test is the Canine Good Citizen award test. A lot of it has to do with having your dog completely under control amidst distractions, including other dogs. This is Daisy's Achilles Heel, so I don't expect to pass. That's OK with me. The trainer said very few dogs pass on the first try anyway. I'm mainly taking the course to try to get Daisy past some of her dog reactance. She's very good around people of all shapes, sizes, colors, etc. But she is crazy on the leash around other dogs.
The teacher has turned out to be very good. I had posted once that she kind of yelled at me about Daisy's behavior around other dogs. But now she understands that I am completely aware of how dangerous and annoying it is, so she's much more empathetic and helpful about it. She has never mentioned a choke collar, and she has specifically said that leash corrections don't work, etc. So I think she is a really good trainer.
She said I have to "train around" this problem instead of avoiding situations with other dogs, as I am doing now. She talked to me about a half an hour after class giving me ideas on what I can try with Daisy. She said she has a Border Collie who had the same problem who she finally managed to train so that he can now be walked anywhere. She said the first Obedience course he was in, it took her 6 weeks to actually get inside the building because he was so nuts with the other dogs in the parking lot! That's patience!
I have to admit that Daisy doesn't get walked as much as she should because of her behavior whenever another dog is near. It's just a matter of time until she acts stupid around the wrong dog and she's going to get hurt. My dream is to be able to take her on a walk in public without her going crazy every time we pass another dog. Actually, If I am able to let her approach and make contact with the other dog, she is MUCH better. She hunkers down and does the sniffing/tail wagging thing like a normal dog. But very few owners are going to let a snarling, barking, lunging dog approach their dog -- I know I wouldn't!
The trainer has commented several times about how Daisy could be very good in competitive obedience if she didn't have this dog reactance. She is awesome at heeling, basic commands, etc. As the teacher says "When she's on, she's on." She's a rock at staying and heeling, rarely taking her eyes off of me. And when she does, she just rolls her big eyes over at the other dog and then back to me, never moving.
My question for you all is: Do you think Daisy could get over some of this more easily if we got another dog? Would she get used to being around other dogs and it wouldn't be such a big deal to her anymore? She is fine with other dogs off leash once she gets past that initial over-excitement. Or at least she was with my brother's shih tzu at Christmas. We also fostered 2 rescue Cavaliers right before Christmas, and she was very good with them, too. She was kind of pushy at first (no aggression at all, just over-interest), but within a very short time, she just let them be. They weren't interested in her at all -- they only had eyes for each other. In fact, they are up for adoption on Lucky Star right now and the Lucky Star people have decided that they have to be placed together because they are so bonded. (Rose and Cody -- my kids named them. )
I sometimes think that if we had another friendly, playful dog that she could chase around with, that maybe she would do better around strange dogs. Maybe I'm just wishful thinking because I'd dearly love to get another Cavalier. I'd like to get the opinions of other multi-dog households, especially if any of your dogs have had issues with other dogs.
Sorry so long! I guess I'm very wrapped up in this issue right now! I would do anything for Daisy and we have to find a way to get over this problem! It's gone from just basic over-excitement when she was a puppy, to complete mania now.
The teacher has turned out to be very good. I had posted once that she kind of yelled at me about Daisy's behavior around other dogs. But now she understands that I am completely aware of how dangerous and annoying it is, so she's much more empathetic and helpful about it. She has never mentioned a choke collar, and she has specifically said that leash corrections don't work, etc. So I think she is a really good trainer.
She said I have to "train around" this problem instead of avoiding situations with other dogs, as I am doing now. She talked to me about a half an hour after class giving me ideas on what I can try with Daisy. She said she has a Border Collie who had the same problem who she finally managed to train so that he can now be walked anywhere. She said the first Obedience course he was in, it took her 6 weeks to actually get inside the building because he was so nuts with the other dogs in the parking lot! That's patience!
I have to admit that Daisy doesn't get walked as much as she should because of her behavior whenever another dog is near. It's just a matter of time until she acts stupid around the wrong dog and she's going to get hurt. My dream is to be able to take her on a walk in public without her going crazy every time we pass another dog. Actually, If I am able to let her approach and make contact with the other dog, she is MUCH better. She hunkers down and does the sniffing/tail wagging thing like a normal dog. But very few owners are going to let a snarling, barking, lunging dog approach their dog -- I know I wouldn't!
The trainer has commented several times about how Daisy could be very good in competitive obedience if she didn't have this dog reactance. She is awesome at heeling, basic commands, etc. As the teacher says "When she's on, she's on." She's a rock at staying and heeling, rarely taking her eyes off of me. And when she does, she just rolls her big eyes over at the other dog and then back to me, never moving.
My question for you all is: Do you think Daisy could get over some of this more easily if we got another dog? Would she get used to being around other dogs and it wouldn't be such a big deal to her anymore? She is fine with other dogs off leash once she gets past that initial over-excitement. Or at least she was with my brother's shih tzu at Christmas. We also fostered 2 rescue Cavaliers right before Christmas, and she was very good with them, too. She was kind of pushy at first (no aggression at all, just over-interest), but within a very short time, she just let them be. They weren't interested in her at all -- they only had eyes for each other. In fact, they are up for adoption on Lucky Star right now and the Lucky Star people have decided that they have to be placed together because they are so bonded. (Rose and Cody -- my kids named them. )
I sometimes think that if we had another friendly, playful dog that she could chase around with, that maybe she would do better around strange dogs. Maybe I'm just wishful thinking because I'd dearly love to get another Cavalier. I'd like to get the opinions of other multi-dog households, especially if any of your dogs have had issues with other dogs.
Sorry so long! I guess I'm very wrapped up in this issue right now! I would do anything for Daisy and we have to find a way to get over this problem! It's gone from just basic over-excitement when she was a puppy, to complete mania now.