TriTitch
Well-known member
Hi folks....I have been hanging around here a while,avidly reading others posts,crying,laughing,relating....
.....pondering over whether to share one of my big time doggy agonies with you and to ask your advice or not for fear of being....god forbid...an unspoken seemingly never to be discussed semi-novice!!...not a fully broken in professional dog handler - yet!!
*Deep breath* Here goes.....
My dog suffers badly from seperation anxiety (there I said it lol)
I got him when he was nearly a year old and he is now officially just over four (tho vets reckon by his teeth he may well be at least a couple of years or so older)
Anyhow.(As is with this breed I know) Titch is very mummyfied. He loves me -as I do him very much. He also loves his family (my kids) but not as much as me.
Whenever I go out he stresses big time i.e. barks,howls,whines,sits on windowsill,licks windows-O),tugs at his chest fur :-( dribbles,refuses to eat,scratches at door....to the point where the neighbours have knocked citing this as a real problem.
Sometimes I have come in to Tich with a chest soaking wet with saliva and a dog so hyped at seeing us for about half an hour.
It stresses me to see him so distressed :-(
Doggy day care centres just dont exist in my area.Either you board your dog overnight,you kennel your dog or you need your dog walked at some assigned two hour point in the day.....no dropping doggy off on your way out and picking doggy up on your way home (as would be ideal for me)
He is highly intelligent and so I have tried the.....allocating him an area which is his/rationing him to a smaller space while we are out,leaving him for a minute then two minutes then five minutes etc to no avail.
I think there must have been some damage done before I met him i.e. his previous owners may have left him for unacceptable amounts of time?? Hes only left(and I make sure of this)for max 3.5 hrs 2/3 times pw
Perhaps he experienced a scary time of some sort when left alone for a period when he was young??
Anyway,the positive way is forward and this is where I really need your advise!
Do I ....
a) Get another dog to keep him company....if so....
aa) A pup
ab) An older dog...rescue/ex puppy mill
or
b) Brave it thru keep trying the DAP diffuser,radio,cats company,dog sitter who can only have him on a monday,try the water spray,high pitch sound(cringe)collar,sedatives(not tried yet tbh :-O)
c) Dog behaviourist in home application :-\
d) Other !!!
Im fast running out of ideas and upon asking loads of peoples opinions the majority have suggested getting another dog but I dont want to run a high risk of doubling the problem!
What could be worse for a neighbour than the next door neighbours dog howling the place down when its owners have gone out and left him forever.....TWO dogs howling the place down when their owners have left them forever and ever!!
I would love to get another dog but the last thing I wanna do is make the issue worse and introduce another(possibly troubled)animal into a house with a squiffy equilibrium :-?
.....pondering over whether to share one of my big time doggy agonies with you and to ask your advice or not for fear of being....god forbid...an unspoken seemingly never to be discussed semi-novice!!...not a fully broken in professional dog handler - yet!!
*Deep breath* Here goes.....
My dog suffers badly from seperation anxiety (there I said it lol)
I got him when he was nearly a year old and he is now officially just over four (tho vets reckon by his teeth he may well be at least a couple of years or so older)
Anyhow.(As is with this breed I know) Titch is very mummyfied. He loves me -as I do him very much. He also loves his family (my kids) but not as much as me.
Whenever I go out he stresses big time i.e. barks,howls,whines,sits on windowsill,licks windows-O),tugs at his chest fur :-( dribbles,refuses to eat,scratches at door....to the point where the neighbours have knocked citing this as a real problem.
Sometimes I have come in to Tich with a chest soaking wet with saliva and a dog so hyped at seeing us for about half an hour.
It stresses me to see him so distressed :-(
Doggy day care centres just dont exist in my area.Either you board your dog overnight,you kennel your dog or you need your dog walked at some assigned two hour point in the day.....no dropping doggy off on your way out and picking doggy up on your way home (as would be ideal for me)
He is highly intelligent and so I have tried the.....allocating him an area which is his/rationing him to a smaller space while we are out,leaving him for a minute then two minutes then five minutes etc to no avail.
I think there must have been some damage done before I met him i.e. his previous owners may have left him for unacceptable amounts of time?? Hes only left(and I make sure of this)for max 3.5 hrs 2/3 times pw
Perhaps he experienced a scary time of some sort when left alone for a period when he was young??
Anyway,the positive way is forward and this is where I really need your advise!
Do I ....
a) Get another dog to keep him company....if so....
aa) A pup
ab) An older dog...rescue/ex puppy mill
or
b) Brave it thru keep trying the DAP diffuser,radio,cats company,dog sitter who can only have him on a monday,try the water spray,high pitch sound(cringe)collar,sedatives(not tried yet tbh :-O)
c) Dog behaviourist in home application :-\
d) Other !!!
Im fast running out of ideas and upon asking loads of peoples opinions the majority have suggested getting another dog but I dont want to run a high risk of doubling the problem!
What could be worse for a neighbour than the next door neighbours dog howling the place down when its owners have gone out and left him forever.....TWO dogs howling the place down when their owners have left them forever and ever!!
I would love to get another dog but the last thing I wanna do is make the issue worse and introduce another(possibly troubled)animal into a house with a squiffy equilibrium :-?