matedaalma
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We have an older dog, he's around 9 years but we're not sure as we got him from a shelter, and he's a really laid back dog when it's just family at home, although he does bark like crazy at strangers. Helio is absolutely in love with him, he looks up to him for everything and wants to play with him all day long. The problem is though, Dobby (our older dog) obviously doesn't have the energy that Helio does and Helio doesn't seem to know when playtime is over. Dobby will jump up on the couch to get away from him and Helio will just bark and bark, trying to jump up (he can't quite get on the couch just yet) and bite his face so he'll come down and play with him instead of sleeping. When he does that, I'll stop what I'm doing and give all my attention to Helio, and we'll play together so he doesn't feel like he's missing a playmate or anything, but after about 10 - 15 minutes, he gets bored and runs away to bug Dobby again. He seems to like Dobby's attention more than any of ours, and I don't want to stress Dobby out or anything, so what can I do to get Helio to want to play with us more?
It's also frustrating because in all the things I've read about training, including the book by Dr. Dunbar, it says to get the dog to stop biting, you should yelp and leave the dog alone, so it knows, "Hey, playtime ended. I need to stop biting so I can keep playing!" But when I do that, Helio reacts in a way that I always take as, "Oh well, I don't really care about playing with you anyway. Where's Dobby?" Also, Dobby has tremendous self-control, so he doesn't really bite at Helio and Helio's bites don't bother him to the point of ending play, other than when he jumps on the couch, and that doesn't seem to deter Helio. Can anyone help with this? It's just very frustrating.
It's also frustrating because in all the things I've read about training, including the book by Dr. Dunbar, it says to get the dog to stop biting, you should yelp and leave the dog alone, so it knows, "Hey, playtime ended. I need to stop biting so I can keep playing!" But when I do that, Helio reacts in a way that I always take as, "Oh well, I don't really care about playing with you anyway. Where's Dobby?" Also, Dobby has tremendous self-control, so he doesn't really bite at Helio and Helio's bites don't bother him to the point of ending play, other than when he jumps on the couch, and that doesn't seem to deter Helio. Can anyone help with this? It's just very frustrating.