What a terrbile shock for you. I am so sorry :hug:
What a terrbile shock for you. I am so sorry :hug:
I'm so sorry about Tobey. He's just beautiful, so sleek and black. Just as other posters had said, you gave him a great life, hoping that is a comfort to you.
Also, cry it all out, just let it all out and also know that Tobey is at peace... he is at Rainbow Bridge now... oh what a lovely place to be! Run free Tobey!
I am sorry :( Tobey was gorgeous :flwr:
Such a sudden unexpected loss too. I know you will work through it but okay to get the pain out... Tears are part of grieving and finally, one day, healing.
Thank you everyone. I am having a really hard time dealing with this. I keep looking for him to come around the corner. My other cat's are nothing like him..he was the super cuddly one who would lay on his back in my lap and gently touch his little paws to my face. I could sleep with my arms wrapped around him..my other cats are much more independent and will come up for a quick pet and walk away. He was "Mr. personality". My husband and I don't have children and it's always been just us and the kitties since we got married 7 years ago (then Polly came along years later) and it's all we've ever known. We've had him since day 1...I actually saw him being born. We adopted a pregnant stray (Salem) and kept her 3 babies. And now I feel a part of me is missing...my eyes are so swollen and I've barely been able to eat in 3 days. I never thought it would be this hard...I wish I could have said goodbye and I hope he is still near me and feels our love for him. Have tears streaming down my face as I write this..I just can't stop crying :(
I am so sorry; it is especially hard when they fall sick out of the blue. :(