
Originally Posted by
Karlin
For myself the worry before knowing is worse than actually finding out. The rest afterwards I can cope with.
I completely agree with this. I was far more upset before I knew what was going on than after, as I now could make decisions rather than fear possibilities. I sometimes worry about what might happen... but what I learned from the months before I had the MRIs was: you can waste enormous time and energy worrying pointlessly about all the wrong things (I though Jaspar had SM. He doesn't and is totally clear. I never imagined Leo did. I foolishly wasted time getting upset over what Jaspar was experiencing when all along it was Leo. And Leo was perfectly happy, and undoubtedly was better off being treated like a normal dog and allowed to lead a normal dog's life).
There are plenty of things to work for and care about that are a lot more constructive and rewarding than worrying about what may never happen. So I do my best not to worry but always am reviewing possibilities so that I have a range of game plans and I hope, never have to make sudden, unexpected decisions for Leo. I do what I can to stay on top of research and thinking, keep Leo happy and healthy, and support those who are doing the research that will give this breed a future.

Alison and Karlin; truer words were never spoken! I know I'm in a state of worrying over Bentley, and I have a wonderful
imagination. I was so nervous today before this vet appt, which was totally silly. I think I will do my best to get him included in this study. If that doesn't work I'll have to find the way to afford the MRI.
~not knowing how near the truth is,
we seek it far away~
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