pippa
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Hi all.
Just wanted to get somones opinion on this.
Gus is just going six and Pippin is 3 and a half.
They have always had me around during the week and I worked two evenings and weekends when someone else was usually around. In the last couple of months my children are all left school and are in college so I changed jobs and now work week days and I am at home weekends. The thing is we are all out during the week and Gus and Pippin are alone.
I only work six hours a day and it takes me 15 mins to get there and 15 mins back again in the evening. My husband comes in for half an hour about an hour after I leave and lets them out to the garden for toilet if they need it. Then my son comes home about an hour and a half before me,so really they are only alone just over five hours and my husband is in for his half an hour during that time.
I bring them for a walk every evening or if the weather is bad play fetch indoors. They spend most evenings curled up on my knee watching TV. They seem happy enough although Gus sometimes looks fed up when I'm heading out to work.
Anyway I still feel guilty leaving them even though they have each other. Is it too long? Anyone else leave their babies and how do they get on? Mine always seem to be curled up in bed together when anyone comes in even though they have the run of the kitchen hall and landing and they don't bark or do anything distructive. Am I worrying for nothing?
Just wanted to get somones opinion on this.
Gus is just going six and Pippin is 3 and a half.
They have always had me around during the week and I worked two evenings and weekends when someone else was usually around. In the last couple of months my children are all left school and are in college so I changed jobs and now work week days and I am at home weekends. The thing is we are all out during the week and Gus and Pippin are alone.
I only work six hours a day and it takes me 15 mins to get there and 15 mins back again in the evening. My husband comes in for half an hour about an hour after I leave and lets them out to the garden for toilet if they need it. Then my son comes home about an hour and a half before me,so really they are only alone just over five hours and my husband is in for his half an hour during that time.
I bring them for a walk every evening or if the weather is bad play fetch indoors. They spend most evenings curled up on my knee watching TV. They seem happy enough although Gus sometimes looks fed up when I'm heading out to work.
Anyway I still feel guilty leaving them even though they have each other. Is it too long? Anyone else leave their babies and how do they get on? Mine always seem to be curled up in bed together when anyone comes in even though they have the run of the kitchen hall and landing and they don't bark or do anything distructive. Am I worrying for nothing?
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