Jen
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A bit of back story...We got Abbey when she was two. She was with a couple that had kids, and given she was with her breeder the first year of her life and very poorly socialized, she didn't mesh well with her new family--she was very fearful of the kids. Given we don't have kids, it was a great match for her. Our whole mission was to have her be a happy, well adjusted dog. We quickly enrolled her in a class designed for shy/fearful dogs, which helped her, and us, greatly.
Three years later, she's out of her shell and we now have an obnoxious dog. And I mean obnoxious. With all of the training, between her and Gus, you would think we wouldn't be in this situation. We're at our wits end and have hired someone to come to our house for private "lessons"...basically, she'll be here to see Abbey in all her glory--how she looses her mind during feeding time, to the point where Gus attacks her, because he's sick of her carrying on like she's dying, to her constantly being underfoot when we're trying to cook or do anything in the kitchen, to her running in front of us and tripping us when we're moving about the house, to her jumping on the back door, etc.
We take full responsibility, because obviously at some point we lost control of the situation. We can pin-point a lot of the behaviors to when we got Gus, and although we've always tried to make sure she's first with everything, including attention, I'm guessing a lot of this is from her feeling the need to be competitive. I guess we'll find out next week. Wish us luck.
Three years later, she's out of her shell and we now have an obnoxious dog. And I mean obnoxious. With all of the training, between her and Gus, you would think we wouldn't be in this situation. We're at our wits end and have hired someone to come to our house for private "lessons"...basically, she'll be here to see Abbey in all her glory--how she looses her mind during feeding time, to the point where Gus attacks her, because he's sick of her carrying on like she's dying, to her constantly being underfoot when we're trying to cook or do anything in the kitchen, to her running in front of us and tripping us when we're moving about the house, to her jumping on the back door, etc.
We take full responsibility, because obviously at some point we lost control of the situation. We can pin-point a lot of the behaviors to when we got Gus, and although we've always tried to make sure she's first with everything, including attention, I'm guessing a lot of this is from her feeling the need to be competitive. I guess we'll find out next week. Wish us luck.
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