
Originally Posted by
Murphy
Bet,
Please remember that Pet-owners do NOT have a monopoly on being 'Broken-Hearted' . I have recently lost my 7 year-old Ruby dog, Red Alert to MVD.
I still have his mother, auntie,(almost 12) and until recently his grandmother(she was 14).
No heart meds there.
I bred him, so I do not apportion 'blame'. The buck stops right here.
What did I do wrong?
Nothing. These things happen in life. It seems all wrong to me but these things must be coped with.
Life does not always give us what we want but we must be brave enough to soldier on - again and again.
IMO there is nothing productive about apportioning blame; to do so simply eats way at you and prevents you moving on.
Yes, I held him in my arms and looked into his eyes as he went; yes, I watched his tail wag until it could wag no more..................
Yes, I am a breeder - his breeder - and I am broken-hearted . Breeders bleed too....
Elspeth Glen, Sandbrae CKCS, Scotland
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