Nicki so sorry you are in this difficult situation. I don't know if this helps I had to make this decision but under completely different circumstances (MVD). It's hard to describe but I just *knew* it was the right time and whilst waiting for the vet my primary emotion was relief for my Sophie and not sadness. Sophie had good times and bad times but for me it came to the point where the good times could never outweigh the bad. The link Charli mentions sounds well worth a look. Hope I have understood your post corectly.
Last edited by Clairelou; 5th November 2009 at 07:18 PM.
Mum to Tallulah (blenheim)
Three Precious Cavalier Angels in Heaven, until we meet again girls...xxx