tara
Well-known member
I am going to a cavalier fun day tomorrow sponsored by our regional cavalier group. I've "met" a few of the members online and found them to be extremely supportive during Holly's accident and recovery period. Only one person in the group has ever seen Holly. This kind breeder stopped by my home a few days after we returned from the hospital post-surgery. She brought a lovely care basket and was so sweet to me and my family. I think she'll be amazed at how far Holly's come.
But ... I am selfishly worried about being around other cavalier owners since the accident. I know this is silly and self-absorbed, but I'm nervous that they will think poorly of me for what all Holly had to endure. Yes, I know it was an accident, but I still harbor a lot of guilt and shame.
And for those who don't know the story, there's the issue of why Holly doesn't have a tail. Her coat is still growing in after all the shaving due to incisions, IV's, etc., so she looks a bit "interesting" these days. I know it's silly and superficial to worry with outward appearances, but I do so nonetheless.
I just hope people will be able to see past the incident and "accept" us into their group. I know I'm being ridiculous, but I felt that you all would understand my fears. I feel it's important to go tomorrow as I want to give a big "thank you" to those who were so supportive. Hopefully I'll report back feeling silly that I worried about any of this!!
But ... I am selfishly worried about being around other cavalier owners since the accident. I know this is silly and self-absorbed, but I'm nervous that they will think poorly of me for what all Holly had to endure. Yes, I know it was an accident, but I still harbor a lot of guilt and shame.
And for those who don't know the story, there's the issue of why Holly doesn't have a tail. Her coat is still growing in after all the shaving due to incisions, IV's, etc., so she looks a bit "interesting" these days. I know it's silly and superficial to worry with outward appearances, but I do so nonetheless.
I just hope people will be able to see past the incident and "accept" us into their group. I know I'm being ridiculous, but I felt that you all would understand my fears. I feel it's important to go tomorrow as I want to give a big "thank you" to those who were so supportive. Hopefully I'll report back feeling silly that I worried about any of this!!