Awww Anne, it really does have to be the thing 'you' decide. What feels most comfortable for you.
The thing is, I remember you always talking about the shore and how much Ella LOVED that place, and it does seem right that there is where she should be.
Just know I'll be saying a little prayer for you as you make that decision.
The pictures are beautiful, and though I've seen many of them, they once again made me weep. She was so stunning, and so are you sweet lady.
Hugs to you and little Elton, I just love his adorable little face!