I think if I were asked that question I would say......"spend some time with the pups and choose the one that tugs on your heart". Male or female makes no difference. I have both and have 2 rubies, 2 tris and a blk/tan. Each one has their own personality that is charming and they each love you equally and all are great snugglers. The only fights I encounter are food fights. For that each is crated for meal time. Of course they develop their pecking order. My one male is the boss which I think is not common as usually the females are. Mine are all neutered, spayed and I think that might make a difference sometimes.
Mary-owned by Maya, Scout, Jazz and Sassy
Annie at the bridge 3/13
Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we're here we should dance......