Thanks Pauline and Karlin,
I think I would look at the cases and how long they lived after being PTS and would try to figure out Ella's prognosis. That is dangerous but it is good to try to read more about it (even if I can't understand her writing, since I am no scientist). I am not smart and have not been around Cavaliers for very long, but that doesn't mean that I can't try to learn more.
It was interesting at the dog show because I met a mix of people and heard different things. I saw the #2 Cavalier in the US, but honestly I can not tell. I just wanted to see someone I met on Facebook that read my blog and has a Cavalier that has SM. I think when someone has gone through this, it makes them understand more or a little bit more sympathetic. Her dog was 7 when she was diagnosed and is now 9. She had surgery at LIVS and 2 years post op the syrinx is gone
but her dog has disc issues. She was really depressed because she bred her and not only was she upset about her Cavalier but upset for the others that she bred. She learned that fortunately the male was an A but as she told me, still 25% can still get SM.
She told me that Dr. Marino at LIVS is doing some good things and has full scans and all these tests for $500. She sees the importance of scanning but she only has one litter maybe a year. She told me that she knows of one guy who scanned his dog and the dog did not make it through the MRI. Some breeders are scared of that risk, but it is something you have to be aware of. It was good to have someone give me a book and tell me she would be there for me. She understands and is a very good soul.
I learned a lot and then heard other things I will not post good and bad.. Overall, I think that people who go through this knows how tough it is. I read the other posts on CT about bad nights, decisions, and everything else and it breaks my heart. One thing for sure is, it is tough to love something so much, but I would not give it up for anything in the world.