BrooklynMom
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Perhaps you need to treat the rubbish they may talk as a stand-up comedy routine - like the lady in the park, which one will tell you the biggest fantasy? Which one has the best line of patter? Which one wins the Ostrich Prize? Don't argue - just let them put their own big feet in their mouths, then go home and tell us all about it! :lol:
Kate, Oliver and Aled
WONDERFUL advice!! I will do just that! I like the way you think...will take the emotion out of it for me, and just let me "ask and observe". I think the asking part will shake them up more than any sort of argument on who is right or wrong (because you will never win it), so great advice. My husband just read this too, and thinks it's a perfect way to get involved, with out "getting involved" if that makes sense.